10 Steps To Win A Girl’s Heart In 10 Days

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Occasionally, I see and hear good guys get intimidated by girl’s beauty, to the extent that they find it very difficult to approach or woo such girls.

You may have seen a girl which you think is perfect to spend the rest of your life with, but unfortunately, she is purely indifferent to your approach or just sheer stubborn. But with the right approach, you will soon realize that winning a girl hearts is a lot easy.

Honestly, if you can find her true self and be your real self, the girl will soon be yours in less than 10 days.

How to Win a Girl’s Heart in 10 Steps


The following are 10 tips on how to win a girl’s heart and even make her desire you the more!

STEP #1. Be a gentle man
Girls don’t want to be treated like a queen, but they do want to be treated like a princess. She doesn’t want you to be a doormat, she wants you to be in control. Open every door for her, especially the car door. Pull out her chair and allow her to sit down first when you take her on a date also let her order first. Being a gentleman is more of being selfless.

STEP #2. Be complimentary
Tell her words that make her feel important, because she’s important to you, you need to let her know she is having some values that others do not value. Tell her how great she looked without makeup the other night.

Tell her funny things and add this: “I love it when you smile” immediately after she does that. Girls love it when you praise them.

STEP #3. Give her timely follow-ups
Try to give her follow-ups wherever you spot her, but don’t act with pressure. In other words, don’t be in a haste. Always give her chances to talk. Best way to start your first conversation: “Hello, may I introduce myself…”

STEP #4. Be creative
You don’t have to break your bank account to impress her. Think outside the box. Give her what recalls your memory. A lady will appreciated a piece of interesting music track you send to her phone rather than buying her a bunch of ice cream from Shoprite.

STEP #5. Mean the business
Girls don’t agree you love them unless you mean the business. I call Gloria every day when I finally got her number. I send her encouraging text messages and inspirational Bible verses. I told her I wanted to be her man on the fifth day. Though she wasn’t ready, she knew my intention. So, I gave her the time she needed, while still advertising myself at every slightest opportunity. She later told me she loved that.

STEP #6. Speak good of her in front of other people
Just like everyone, girls love it and feel better when you praise them, especially when they hear it from other people closer to you. Treat her just as kindly in front of friends and family as you do when you are alone.

STEP #7. Be protective
Learn not to let her walk alone. If she’s going to the gas station at night, go with her. If you’re at a club and she needs to go to the restroom, take her there and wait outside the door.

STEP #8. Be attentive
Show her that you care for her. Pay attention to the small details. Girls care about the small stuff, big time. For instance, if you know your she is a vegetarian, take her to a vegetarian restaurant and listen to what she has to say.

STEP #9. Be a good observer
Ask “what”, “how” and “why” questions. They help you understand a lady better. If you’re doing most of the talking, you may not get very far with her. Show her you care with body language and by repeating back some of what she just told you. Girls love to be in control while talking.

STEP #10. Be real you
Yes! Be yourself. She would be so disappointed fallen for a false persona, and why would you want that anyway? So play real games with her, you are encouraging a to be real also.

So cos it worked on ur babe means it will work for every lady out there? Impossicant!!

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For Nigeria in particularly and Africa in general, that list isn’t complete. Without money?. As in, provide for her needs. Except its not in Nigeria. If u have real cash, u can keep girls. Its that simple, with money, you don’t need a soothsayer or tutorials

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Can you believe these?

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There is no harm in trying, just try it.

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Wow… what a long list

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For me ooo…
I would rather spend my time reading and energy studying how to become a millionaire and then watch how girls try to win me.

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Ladies love money more than love and petty petty care.

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@akpan, yes girl love cheerful giver…. But discipline ladies hardly respond to money

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Thanks @sly…. your love medicine actually helped a guy in need

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No money, no iphone, no shopping, no expensive jewelry, no eat out? Well that is for highly disciplined ladies

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Thanks @gayo

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