How May D Turned Me Into A Punching Bag – Baby Mama

May D’s baby mama, Debola writes how her estranged lover of 8 years turned her into a punching bag via Linda Ikeji blog.

My name is Debola I’m sure you know who I am, you put me on ur blog about 3yrs ago, for tattooing a Nigerian artist name on my body, I’m MayD’s baby Mama… I haven’t come here to rant or make noise, but to say some important things that I feel people should know. I will try to make my story as short as possible.

I was with May D for 8 years, which implies we were together from the get-go, before his career began and when nobody knew him obviously. For many years I stayed with him, obviously as his girlfriend, I supported him, financially, physically and emotionally. Back then when I was in Babcock we passed through loads of hurdles together being that he was struggling and incapable of providing for himself and I was obliged to supporting him financially. Even when it was extreme, like giving him a semester’s tuition to pay for studio sessions while I stupidly stayed at home, the things we do for love right?I practically paused my life for him, for us at a point. The sad part about this whole thing is that I never got tired I did everything that was within my reach. He stopped to cater for his kid a while ago, which I took responsibilities for and started to do diligently..

Now, like most relationships we had major problems which included the frequent cheating and escapades with girls which I obviously endured as I was consumed by the “main chick” title. Not that I was even getting any good thing in return, he never for one day acknowledge me, or made me feel like we were in a relationship together. I had no simple freedom to do whatsoever on my own, be it business, friendship etc.

The thing I couldn’t cope with was the fact that he beat me up at every slightest opportunity he had, he beats me up like a man, he beat me up so badly infront of our little boy all the time. He assaulted me regularly, I suffered domestic violence in silence, and this last time he beat me up so badly and I passed out.. I saw my life flash right infront of me. I witnessed been close to death, I prayed to survive each time he pounced on me, damaging several properties nd breaking diff stuff on my head.

This had to be my last experience, as I thought to myself, who will take care of my child for me if I die in his hands? Who will he call mother? Who will stand by him? So I left the relationship hurriedly without thinking of how much time, energy, resources that must have been wasted….

PS( I av my tattoo removed already for those of you that want to comment bullshit)……

PLS SAY NO TO DOMESTIC VIOLENCE….

DEBOLA

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Men wont stop beating their gals and their gals wont stop following them. Why
The power of money and the power of love

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Serves you right! Goal digger

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See fine girl, better run for your life.
Mum and dad sent you to Babcock to study but you left Bab and followed cock and and MayDick.
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Accept my sincere apology, abi na sympathy sef?

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Things we do for love. Sorry ehhn.

#SayNoToDomesticViolence

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Are you sure he really loves you? Its so obvious you forced yourself on that ugly May D. You even gave birth out of wedlock, to cap it all, you tattooed his name on your body. Girl are you alright? No wonder he took you for granted because you made yourself so vulnerable.

Next time, learn how to control your emotion and hormone.

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I was with MayD for 8years, which implies we were together from the get-go, before his career began and when nobody knew him obviously. For many years I stayed with him, obviously as his girlfriend, I supported him, financially, physically and emotionally. Back then when I was in Babcock we passed through loads of hurdles together being that he was struggling and incapable of providing for himself and I was obliged to supporting him financially. Even when it was extreme, like giving him a semester’s tuition to pay for studio sessions while I stupidly stayed at home, the things we do for love right?I practically paused my life for him, for us at a point. The sad part about this whole thing is that I never got tired I did everything that was within my reach. He stopped to cater for his kid a while ago, which I took responsibilities for and started to do diligently..

OK, Debola dear, we have heard you. Lets hear from your man himself. Bring May D on.
Oya, come on, yes you. I mean you there, come come, how did it happen? No lie o!!

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When you should have zipped your pants up and done what responsible young girls should do, you were busy jumping from one place to another, from one party to the other till you got pregnant.

I hope you got your certificate, cos even May D!ck wont employ you without it

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Meanwhile, this is very unfair

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@sly: just shot up

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@silygal: Just like that

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@sly: You heard me. what else were you expecting?

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The spirit of your name and handle are after you. Seriously, watch out.

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The spirit of May D is also after you, very soon, you baby mama would expose you toooo.

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I know say you just dey jealousy like jelosil.
Infact I go tell her to keep her eyes on you and watch you closely. You are of recently coming too close.

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